Taking your child to the dentist for the first time can feel like a big milestone—and it is. But with that milestone comes a lot of questions (and a few worries). Kids Dentists hear the same concerns from parents over and over again, but there are also important questions many don’t think to ask. Here’s a guide to both—the common and the overlooked—so you’re fully prepared for your child’s first visit and beyond.
Kids Oral Health: Common Questions
When Should I Take My Child to the Dentist for the First Time?
This is, hands down, the most asked question. The answer? It is recommended that your child see a dentist by their first birthday or within six months of their first tooth coming in—whichever comes first. Many parents are surprised by how early this is, but early visits help catch problems before they become serious and set the tone for a lifetime of good habits.
How Can I Prepare My Child for Their First Visit?
Preparation is key. Kids pick up on your anxiety, so keep things upbeat and simple. Read a book or watch a video about visiting the dentist. Avoid words like “pain,” “hurt,” or “shot.” Instead, discuss how the dentist helps keep teeth healthy and strong. A kids dentist will also know how to make the visit fun and stress-free, with lots of positive reinforcement and kid-friendly explanations.
What Happens at the First Visit?
The first visit is usually short and gentle. The dentist will examine your child’s mouth, check for early signs of cavities, and make sure everything is developing normally. They might do a gentle cleaning and talk to you about caring for kids’ teeth—covering brushing, flossing, diet, and fluoride. It’s also a chance for you to ask any questions you have.
What If My Child Won’t Cooperate?
This is a big fear for many parents. Kids are unpredictable, especially in new situations. A good kids dentist is used to this and knows how to work with fussy, scared, or stubborn kids. Don’t stress if your child cries or refuses to open their mouth. The goal is to build trust over time. The worst thing you can do is force it and turn the visit into a battle.
Are Baby Teeth Really That Important?
Yes—more than many people realize. Baby teeth help maintain the space needed for adult teeth to grow properly and play a big role in speech development and nutrition. If they get cavities or fall out too early, it can lead to bigger problems down the line. That’s why caring for kids’ teeth starts early and matters at every stage.
How Often Should My Child See the Dentist?
Just like adults and teens, kids should visit the dentist every six months. Regular checkups help catch small problems before they turn into big ones and keep your child’s smile on track.
What Parents Forget to Ask (But Should)
While most parents cover the basics, here are a few important questions that don’t come up as often—but should.
Should I Be Using Fluoride Toothpaste?
Yes—starting as soon as the first tooth appears. Use a tiny smear (the size of a rice grain) for kids under three and a pea-sized amount after that. Fluoride is essential for preventing cavities. Some parents worry about fluoride being “too strong,” but when used in the right amounts, it’s safe and effective.
What’s the Best Way to Handle Thumb-Sucking or Pacifier Use?
Thumb-sucking and pacifiers are normal soothing habits, but they can affect dental development if they go on too long. Most dentists recommend trying to stop by age 3. If your child is having trouble letting go of the habit, your kid’s dentist can offer tips or tools to help.
How Can I Prevent Cavities Beyond Brushing?
Diet plays a huge role. Limit sugary snacks and drinks, especially sticky ones like fruit snacks or gummy vitamins that cling to teeth. Encourage water between meals and teach your child to swish with water after eating if brushing isn’t possible. Your dentist might also suggest sealants, a protective coating for your child’s molars.
Is It Normal for Adult Teeth to Emerge Behind Baby Teeth?
This happens fairly often—especially with lower front teeth—and is usually nothing to worry about. It’s called “shark teeth,” and in most cases, the baby tooth will eventually loosen and fall out naturally on its own. If they don’t, your dentist might need to remove them.
What Should I Do If My Child Has a Dental Emergency?
Accidents happen—kids chip, crack or knock out teeth all the time. Keep your dentist’s emergency number handy. If a baby tooth is knocked out, don’t try to put it back in. If it’s a permanent tooth, rinse it gently (without scrubbing), put it back in the socket if you can, or keep it in milk and get to the dentist ASAP.
The Bottom Line
Your child’s first dental visits set the foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles. Regular checkups, good home care, and open communication with your kid’s dentist make all the difference. And remember—no question is too small or silly when caring for kids’ teeth.
Do you have a question that wasn’t answered here? Bring it up at your next visit—your children’s dentist is your best resource for keeping your child’s smile healthy and strong. Book your child’s next visit with Toronto Kids Dental today. Our friendly team makes caring for kids’ teeth easy, stress-free, and fun. Call us or schedule online—we’re here to keep little smiles healthy!
